"Ironically, the word 'shit' makes me cringe. I never used curse words to emphasize my meaning or stance on things- there are better words to describe a person's feelings than profanity. However, I realized that when talking to many trauma survivors, this term was used frequently. It represented the worst situation, feeling, or moment that summed it all up, and only those words fit precisely and said it all." ~ Deborah Holmen, It Takes a Lot of Sh*t to Grow Beautiful Flowers: A Gardener's Guide to Life
Editorial Reviews
"The book is a masterful blend of memoir and metaphor, using the art of gardening as a profound lens for engaging with life's myriad experiences. Holmén’s narrative draws the reader into a rich, sensory world where every weed, blossom, and garden bed symbolizes aspects of personal growth and reflection that define our human journey. Her writing encourages a deep appreciation for the nuances of daily experiences and human connections, promoting a holistic perspective on life."
"With vivid and engaging storytelling, Holmén creates a welcoming and nurturing environment that supports readers in exploring their own personal histories and the lessons they hold. Holmén's memoir transcends a simple recounting of events, offering instead a compelling framework for personal introspection and transformation. Her seamless blending of past and present, combined with her perceptive insights and genuine empathy, helps readers untangle their own narratives with clarity and compassion."
"The book becomes a sanctuary where reflection, self-love, and self-actualization thrive. More than just a memoir, it serves as a guide to overcoming adversity and fostering personal growth, inspiring readers to embrace their unique journeys and emerge with a renewed sense of possibilities and a brighter, more enriching life." ~ Ida Covi, MA., CEO of iRewild Institute
"Holmen’s holistic approach emphasizes the interconnectedness of various aspects of life, highlighting the importance of nurturing oneself in different areas. Readers will find inspiration in the book’s message of resilience, growth, and transformation, learning how to overcome obstacles and cultivate beauty in their lives. This book is not only informative but also deeply appealing, enhancing the reading experience with its vivid imagery. ~ Ben Angel, Bestselling and Award-Winning Author, Unstoppable: A 90-Day Plan to Biohack Your Mind and Body for Success