By Deborah Holmen, M.Ed., NBCT It may seem like a large divide, but creating boundaries helps everyone cope more effectively. Boundaries are your best friend. Advocate for your needs, but also respect the family’s healing process. You’re not an intruder; you’re a new chapter. Sometimes, the bravest thing you can do is simply show up—again and again. Dear Feeling Left Out, That feeling you're sitting with is older than you. Anyone who has married into a close-knit family, or s

An online widows' group contacted me to discuss my experiences dating a widower. One member was unsure whether to continue or end her relationship, and listening to the members' challenges was enlightening. I developed these tips to help them better grasp the complexities involved. Experience is the best teacher, and after almost nine years, I've learned some valuable lessons about dating and marrying a widower.